In Slavic culture the special attention was always paid to a subject of a marriage. Time goes, everything changes, do not remain without configurations and married traditions. For example, ideas of ideal age for marriage very much differ at representatives of several generations.
Here the girl beauty of 27 years sits before me and with grief says that her grandmother and mother very much worry, as though it did not remain in "maids". And it would not like to hurry, the love she yet did not meet, but here experience and discomfort – in a face. When me ask about what – ideal age for a marriage at present, I without reflecting I answer with a question a question: "Ideal for whom?! Who should remain the happy winner happy, so to speak?" And here the main complexity disappears. READ ALSO – How to change a surname after wedding Still any several decades ago for districts of the USSR the main value there was a country, and my granny with full confidence repeated:" I – the last letter of the alphabet". Respectively its ideal age for marriage was caused by benefit for the country, and a main goal was as it is possible to marry, give rise and bring up worthy Russian people earlier. At present in Ukraine youth on the 1st place interests own I more put, in other words the career, realization, the validity of own feelings to the partner and a choice of suitable pair. The spiritual development, advance, physical health and not bad health. Having even more often heard in maternity hospital "diagnosis" starorodyashchy, ladies smile, instead of worry. Modern Europe set to us a certain ideal, an example for imitation where the 34-year-old spouse is considered young, and marriages before age – raneshny. Speaking about the dangers trapping young spouses, printsipno to note still undeveloped ability to constructive dialogue both not processed parental programs and scenarios when young people, that without wishing, build a family by the form and to similarity of own parents. But that there is a possibility to grow, develop and move together forward is healthy and positive, moderately being transformed in the relations from love to partnership. Late marriages for me does not exist, unless the lady longs to have children, and purely physiologically her genital function is ended – then sadly. And for the rest I do not see troubles and barriers, after all resources much – is both experience, and a maturity, and wisdom. Concerning marriages with big distinction be elderly – there is a danger to be not partners equal in rights, and to play in a family parental and children’s affairs when the senior on age the partner acts as the father or mother, and younger – the daughter or the descendant, being on the full contents at the first. For children playing a role in this case is a way in anywhere. And entering such affairs, printsipno about to keep in the head about self-realization, self-updating in society and only the love and partnership then are possible. Timely to you marriage!